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Dec 2019

It's because it appeals to female audiences in a way that most western media does not. Romance and sex between 2 guys, allows women to fantasize and objectify men, wherein, most media(especially western media) does not allow women to express this. Women are sexualized and objectified in practically everything in the west, from commercials, to comics, to movies, games, and tv. But rarely are men portrayed like this to women, and if they are, its to a much lesser degree, as it is just not really as acceptable in western culture. BL just sort of allows women to embrace their sexuality in a safe and fulfilling way.... at least that what I think.

Adding on to what everyone else is saying, I think BL stories also have the inherent drama of being "forbidden romance." When done well, coming out or persecution stories can be very powerful. And even when not, they're an easy way to add emotion to a story.

I sort of thought that too about the forbidden love thing. And like a femininity and masculinity thing. It's never been taboo for girls to hug, hold hands, and touch one another (and I mean this mainly platonically), but it's always been a taboo for men to do that the way women can (in Western culture anyway). I think people enjoy reading stories where that barrier is being torn down.
That said, I'd love to see GL get it's own category.

It's cause girls don't like seeing other girls doing the dirty, makes them squicked out. Same with dudes into lesbo porn. It's not rocket science. Fujo girls probably read comics more then men too so there's a surplus.

They're probably also turned off by the horrid acting by women in porn. I feel like it's harder to tell when someone is faking when they're the opposite gender.

If they were they wouldn't be reading yaoi in the first place lol

Thank you for your thoughtful response. It's interesting that you brought up how the media might be influencing people to have less desire to write good female characters. I suppose Tapas is mostly new creators finding their feet, so perhaps instead of challenging the way women are written, they feel more comfortable being influenced by their favourite male characters and writing characters like them.

I also hope to see more genuine queer stories being told, rather than the fetishisation of gay men.

Yes! supply and demand. I think a lot of the BL isn't written or aimed towards queer people though, and is consumed by mainly straight women. It'd be nice to see a broader range of queer stories by queer creators.

This makes total sense. Thank your for your response. I hope that eventually it's easier for woman to explore their desires and sexuality in their art rather than creating a male character to stand in for them.

I have yet to see a realistic webcomic about a plumber’s whirlwind romance!

I mean... well... I've seen guys holding hands, looking at each other, kissing... touching.... etc.........

and it is hot.

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It's just human nature and something that can't be controlled.

Why are [anime/manga] guys so hot.

ugh.

It's a blessing and a curse.

But I don't read much BL actually because the plot/art styles don't really interest me. This might be getting at what @gempompadour was saying about their friend who likes "slash" more than BL. I think slash would mainly refer to when you ship characters together who aren't necessarily together. I love to slash characters together more than I like most BL! Maybe because there's a deeper relationship between the characters that goes beyond just a romantic attraction? Like they're friends first and get along well.

Or there's UST (unresolved sexual tension) between them? That's nice too.

There are basically five main topics on the forum that are often repeated:

1) Why is BL so popular?
2) Promote your webcomics
3) What are you eating, viewing, etc.?
4) My comic isn't popular; should I kill myself?
5) Writer seeks artist for mutual pleasure