The weird thing about that is that with writing...you can kinda get away with not realizing those details or not caring about them. ^^; Like, it's good to know and be informed, but even if you aren't it usually doesn't show up within the confines of a single character or story.
Like, for example, more women than men are taught to cook, do chores, and keep house, generally because women are still expected to do those things, often specifically for the sake of the men in their lives (The Patriarchy, again) while men just aren't.
However, if you were to write a male character who was great at cooking and doing chores, no one would find it weird. You could "justify" it with another character's comment (like, "god, I wish there were more men like you") but you really don't have to. No one would find it weird. :T
And even if a reader DID find it weird and asked you, you could just say "[male character] just likes to have a clean environment and help out around the house"; essentially chalking it up to individual preference, and that'd be the end of it. Like, there is a gender norm at play here, but it's not detectable in this case; and a lot of gender norms are actually like that. Which is why I found the title question of this thread unusual enough to address the reasoning behind it.
Anyway, to actually answer it (because I forgot to do that before): like many others, I'm gonna have to say no. ^^ But there are two main reasons for that:
1) As someone nonbinary, "aren't your gender" is literally everyone XD
2) I specialize in science fiction and fantasy action stories, where gender often plays a much smaller role in storytelling. When the focus of the story is the MC trying to survive battles and master supernatural powers, I don't really care that much whether they act masculine or feminine, and I don't have to.