I have to agree to disagree because I know some of these people and they are not what you think. Many of them are married with daughter who they put on pedestals. Plus, in the defense of guys who like fanservice, you can put male characters into some pretty sexy mod skins too which women can enjoy.
Then there was that time in Metal Gear Solid 2 where Raiden was as naked as newborn with only his hands covering his unmentionables. I mean, they didn't even try to hide his butt. And even when he was clothed, he basically wore an outfit that was the masculine version of what Eve wears shiny metal rear and all lol. So if women can have eye candy and not be judged, I'm just saying men shouldn't either. We're all human.
Don't get me wrong, some of these guys are bad dudes and I have met who you've been talking about, but yes, there are two sides to the argument.