uhhh... so, as a dyke, not a massive fan of BL. theres a lot of by & for gay men content that im really into, but i find that a lot of BL is a bit too bishie and cutesy, or just wildly too horny, and all for people im obvs not into
i cant say i actually read that many stories that market themselves as GL either, BUT i am all for a good wlw or mlm romance - i cant say i prefer it to queers that dont centre romance, though, i think its all just part of a healthy diet innit
i feel like the answer to this one is kinda given to us by straight media, surprisingly. so you know how a lot of 80s action movies are very homosocial (its all guys being dudes together), so filmmakers will throw in a few 'no homos' and comments about sexy ladies so that they can then be as intense and emotional with their male friendships as they like, bc theyve heterosexualised their men. dont even need a single female character present to do it - course, it doesnt get rid of the latent homoeroticism, but it shows that if u have an LGBT character who doesnt have a romantic partner anywhere in the story, one or two comments are enough.
that said, my two main projects so far have been a queer romance and a comic where transness and queerness are pretty fundamental... but also only subtextual. and usually lean towards stories where either the queerness is fundamental, or not mentioned at all (everything i write is queer whether explicit in the text anyway)
i think if i was approaching, say, an ensemble adventure series or smth that had Some Gays in it, i'd be flagging with clothing, taste, and social scene. gays stick together, people.
course not. first of all, transness has nowt more to do with dating than cisness. and second of all... of course not!