I am chill, however I must mention that I do not plan to sugar coat how fishy, vague, unclear, unorganized, and quite clickbaiting the OP and their post sound like.
And I must tell you, if you believe that this is "too rough" then I hardly doubt you'll be able to tolerate feedback from impatient, unsatisfied readers or fellow writers and artist who can and totally have the freedom to criticize either your work or server. Consider it practice, as my seniors used to say back in 2012.
You call someone delusional when they propose things they don't have, when they don't plan ahead, when they don't have anything to offer yet they do regardless and hope others to fill on the blankets for them and have goals who seem nice but clearly doesn't have the structure to be achieved and too many promises but little to none explanations.
If you don't have a discord server, then create one. Being on your phone is no excuse, or at least wait until you get home and then put your hands to work.
If you want to create a collab/community then create it, no need to clickbait others who want to make money. Just go with the classic of wanting to make friends but oh, clearly, doesn't caught the eye that easily?
If you want someone to collaborate in your story, either make it interesting enough or hope for someone to do it for free. Or you can do it yourself regardless of your abilities, otherwise just save money, pay an artist and done.
If you want to be a work network then expect people to be wary, no one wants to be scammed, waste their time, get their work stolen, have deadbeat partners who slow down the project, be in a place that isn't helpfull at all or doesn't even have many offers to begin with. People who want to make money, want to work asap.