Names or phrases you don't like?

@vothnthorvaldson Vothn Thorvaldson
Sat, 09 Mar 2019 23:03:26 +0000

@vothnthorvaldson wrote:

Oooh, you got a lot of 'good' ones here!

Uke and seme: Arghh. The concepts these words stand for are already questionable, and the way they are often use is simply unacceptable. I'll go as far as saying that for me, it sometimes goes further than plain ignorance and is just a different manifestation of homophobia.

I'm lucky enough to never have come across such words as "boypussy/manpussy". Thank you for warning me for future encounters

'Exotic', I hate that one. Exotic for whom? exotic in which context? The worst is when it's used as a mildest way to say 'foreign' when the person think 'foreign' will sound racist because the person is actually a compatriot, but eh, exotic may sound just as bad!
But I would say that intent remains the most important. I still prefer people using slightly derogatory words with no bad intentions than people using politically correct words to cover their true (negative) feelings.