Somehow , it feels like we're tying fault (who's fault that this has/is happened/ing) to the amount of control people have over their next move.
Or if the challenge isn't something you've brought on by your own hand, you are absolved of all responsibility for yourself.
What if you simply need help?
Some people say once you accept a situation, you are giving consent for it to continue.
I'm not sure how to feel about that.
If a person FEELS there is no way out, they tend to accept the situation- no matter how bad it is.
Or that the other dangerous side of the coin, that if you've shown bad judgement, made a mistake or gotten taken advantage of, there's no compassion, empathy or help because- you did it to yourself or worse, you let it happen.
As stated, it usually isn't just one thing that brings a person down. It's also, usually not one thing that makes EVERYTHING better. But one thing can be identified as a catalyst both ways.
Moving you up and moving you down..