Well, we talked to our shitty roommate last week. Two weeks ago? Time's kind of a blur because of the weird job scheduling I'm in.
Nothing has changed. Every word I knew she would say came out of her mouth: "But I'm depressed! I've been suicidal! You're being unfair! Why didn't Caelen bring this up to me personally!?"
Because I tried
And all I got was her screaming at me
She's manipulative and cruel and I am so, so sick of this. She's talking about just moving out now instead of trying to keep improving. Fine. I'm tired of her shit, our other roommate is tired of her shit, and my partner is tired of her shit. Our roommate has SEVERE depression and has been hospitalized a few times for suicidal ideation, but he's now regularly seeing a therapist and managing his symptoms well with medication plus he has us as a support group he knows he can come to if he's feeling not-quite-bad-enough to see his therapist outside of scheduled appointments. I'm unmedicated depression and anxiety, but I've learned to cope because my insurance I have through my biological dad does NOT cover therapy or antidepressants. Again, I have a wonderful support group and I taught myself coping methods that work for my problems.
Her? She hides in her room all day. She baits people on dating sites into being assholes and then tears them down. She's unsubtly racist, immensely sexist/misogynist then swears she's a feminist, for real, and transphobic - constantly calls me by pronouns I do NOT want and never refers to my partner with their chosen pronouns, swears she's nonbinary too but that "she's too lazy to do anything except wear dresses" and tries to force me to try on extremely effeminate clothing on the rare occasion we go to the store together.
She won't seek medication, because "none of it works because of her metabolism," and she won't seek therapy, because therapists are just out to tell you that you're broken and nothing will fix you. obviously.
Just three more months.