Oh, God. Preach.
And I just have the impression I read the story of my life, with a few really minor differences.
My kook didn't get arrested He got a military insignia for any crimes he committed (and I am not talking about selling drugs, stealing stuff …). And is trying to rekindle our child-parent relationship … mostly because I live in a popular Western country and he'd give his leg to live here too, on my paycheck if possible.