Nice finding this thread! My story is a lot more inspired by movies!
I strive for wholesome but also with a tone of melancholy, like a lot of non-action oriented anime movies, to tug your heartstrings. I also like a lot of 90's coming-of-age movies.

One Stormy Night
Gisaburo Sugii who also directed Night of the Galatic Railroad & Life of Guskou Budori, etc. They have the similar but different vibe compared to Ghibli movies.

Life of Guskou Budori

My Girl, a very touching movie, prepare your tissues.
The Road Home, an art film starring Zhang Ziyi in her debut, maybe not your cup of tea but this one I highly recommend to watch.
