Interesting how many different viewpoints there are here on this chat. It's quite nice that people are sharing their beliefs.
It's sad that so many here have had negative views of Christianity and Christians. I am a Christian (and not a perfect one by any means, that's why I follow Jesus Christ), and have heard many different tales of good Christians, bad Christians, and those inbetween.
I agree that when one tries to use religion (any religion) to harm someone is wrong, especially considering that in every religious text, the messages of love and peace and patience are preached.
No one is perfect, that's why we seek the guidance of a perfect God, who can teach us to be kinder to one another, care about each other and walk in a way that promotes peace.
Obviously we all have differences, and yes sometimes we all let that drive a wedge between each other. But can we learn to accept each other in those differences?
Jesus Christ in the Christian Bible gives two ultimate commandments:
"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind," Matthew 22: Verse 37. Meaning, we are to love the Lord who created us. He created us in spite of knowing what we would do, what we would say, who we would be because He loves us. He's our Father, and He does care about us. I know some people are going to scoff at that, and some are going to disbelieve that. Truthfully, only you can make that choice. And that is the gift God gave us: choice. Because God's looking at our hearts and our character and no one (YES! NO ONE!) is too bad, too lost, too stubborn for God to turn away. If anything, we take a bad situation and blame Him. I'm not a cosmic know it all but I do believe that everything happens for a reason and God's ways are not our ways, but work out in the best way.
And the second commandment:
"You shall love your neighbor as yourself," Matthew 22: verse 39. "Neighbor" does not mean the person you live next door to. Neighbor is everyone. Neighbor is friend and enemy alike. Even when asked "who is my neighbor?", Jesus Christ explains:
"A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho and fell among thieves, who stripped him of his clothing, wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead. Now by chance a certain priest came down that road. And when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. Likewise, a Levite, when he arrived at the place, came and looked, and passed by on the other side. But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was. And when he saw he had compassion on him, and went to him, bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine; and he set him on his own animal, brought him to an inn and took care of him. On the next day when he departed, he took out two denarii, gave them to the innkeeper, and said to him "Take care of him; and whatever more you spend, when I come again, I will repay you.' So which of these three do you think was neighbor to him who fell among the thieves?" And he said, "He who showed mercy on him." Then Jesus said to him, "Go and do likewise." Luke 10:30-37
So, Christians (and people) are urged to be peaceful and helpful to one another. You may come from here, or you may come from there, or may believe this or may believe that, but we are called to love. In history, Samaritans and Jews (who were the main religion in Jerusalem at the time) did not get along. So, when a Samaritan helped someone out it wasn't a dig at other religions, but that all humans can help each other by simply treating others as they would want to be treated.
To wrap up here, I am truly sorry for those of you who have had a negative experience with Christians. We are not all like that, and I am saddened that you were misled or worse, your opinion and views of God and Jesus Christ have been soured. We're all people, and we all struggle. I'm not excusing what they did or defending it, I'm merely saying that even the most devout are still human. That's why if we're really honest with ourselves is why we turned to God and Jesus Christ-because we were no good, mean spirited, lost and confused people, who really just wanted something that changed us from the inside versus numbing us and waking up to the pain still being there. Ask anyone who they were before Christ saved them and they'll tell you.
Regardless, you are loved. You are welcome here, regardless of what you've done (yes, you are). But, I can't make you see that, so I give you my input and leave it in your hands. And someday, maybe, your views will go from negative to positive
God bless you and keep you 