I think you're completely right about this.
It was really great to hear about a similar sittuation happening from a readers perspective.
Really good point, I think if I labled it as a BL I would feel inclined to add in more romantic scenes, which in the grand scheme of the story would be suuuupppeer innapropriate, on top of that fan service is always garbage.
Helll yeah, one of the reasons I started this project is because I wanted to help normalize gay characters in media (I started this almost 4 years ago now >_> normalization was a bigger deal then), and part of the way I think that needs to be done is by not drawing attention to it.
All of you guys were super helpful, thank you for talking me out of a bad decision!