I have this chat with my friends pretty often, because most of us are stage actors, and a lot of them (particularly the ones younger than I am) have big BIG dreams. Most of my friends moved to LA or NYC after school to work there. A lot of them, folks who I sort of mentored when they were younger, have gone on to do Broadway and TV and a lot of awesome things. But, for me ... well, I've stuck mostly to medium-sized cities. I currently live in Columbus, Ohio.
So I guess I'd say, I wanna be a big fish in a medium pond. I want to be ambitious, but I want to avoid the sort of headache and game-playing that happens when you "make it big". That life just doesn't appeal to me.
But, most of all, I just want to do good work, and tell good stories that mean something to people. Half of my family is Native American, and I've just sorta grown up my whole life with this emphasis on the importance of storytelling in all mediums.