Mind I ask why it's called "Movember"?
Men are just as important as every other individual out there. And we should remind them that it's okay to ask for help at times, hardships is not a measurement of strength but a reminder that we are all just human.
My boyfriend is the only best friend I ever have, he definitely is not born healthy, I remind him that his condition doesn't make me love him any less. We've been dating for almost three years now, it only felt like yesterday when I got to know him.
Edit: I grew up in a very sexist household so it's rare I care about a man. I think that's also why I love him and being with him makes me care more about men in general. They do be giving themselves impossible standards. –3–