Thank you for calling it endearing. I suppose steampunk and 19th century stuff is also one of my interests as well. Without all this research Elsie wouldn’t be the way it is
Also with Harry. I have been told I was annoying several times… it isn’t just this interests but my other ones too.
A “friend” of mine who turned out to be a jerk, I won’t say names for privacy reasons, told me “Your obsession with Houdini is going too far,” and “It could be dangerous.”
And I’m like “How could it be dangerous?”
Anyway… I’m not friends with that person anymore. Not just because of that but also because of their behavior around my other friend irl. It was messy. I don’t want to talk to them ever again. Among many many other things including pushing boundaries way too far which was not okay.
Being on the spectrum is hard. But I’ve always had a hard time with communication and social cues.