I've recently dealt with people who are, not necessarily rude, but I can understand why they may have no or little support on Tapas as a whole. to the best of my ability, I remain patient and kind here, simply because those are the rules, and my mom raised me to be that way. People tend to let their opinions or beliefs say too much, when they're not really asked for. I get that people want to be heard here and want to feel like they are important here.
Man, I GET it. It's called vanity, and we all have it, and as I told someone already, it's the Devil's greatest gift to us.
We can't get rid of it, but we can sure as hell control how it affects us. So remember that if you have opinion or belief and realize the moment you share it, you're going to face opposition from somewhere. Not everyone's going to be right and not everyone's going to be wrong.
Now if we can remember that...we really have no reason to argue so damned vehemently around here.