Setting boundaries if not a Call-Out / Beware post

[RedLenai]

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[JoshRaed]

I didn’t want to do this because I just want to never talk about this again, but you are lying. You blocked me once. I only have one tumblr account. I had access to your account the whole time until yesterday. Unless you mean a soft block, but that shouldn’t count. I’m either blocked or i’m not. I can’t read your mind to find out you secretly blocked and unblocked me I just saw that i’m not blocked.

I have no energy to do a debunking of any of this so i’ll just say this all started because I felt remorseful for my behavior and owned up to it, apologized, promised to be better, and thanked you for the advice, and you said that this proved I was fundamentally bad and would never improve.

This is the last time I ever intend to talk to or about you. Please do the same. I just want this to be over.

[RedLenai]

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[Stargazer31]

JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE AND GO OUTSIDE OH MY GODS
What part of "leave me alone" don't you get? We've done SO MUCH for you. How bloody entitled are you?

[IndigoShirtProd]

but you are lying.

That's all you have to say? All of this, and that's all you can say in response? Josh, anyone who's interacted with here has every reason to believe what @RedLenai has said here.

And also, why would you even respond here? They don't want you to talk to them. That includes replying directly on their forum threads. What is wrong with you?

I have no energy to do a debunking of any of this

But you have the time to follow them to other platforms and commission them? Josh, if all you wanted to do was apologize then you wouldn't be here now calling @RedLenai a liar. You're not remorseful. You're not considerate of others. And you seem truly incapable of taking accountability for your actions.

Josh. Log off. Seriously, stop coming here looking for answers you already know you're not going to find.

[Stargazer31]

All you do is demand and demand and demand. Go outside. Get a hobby. Play in the mud, I don't care, just enough of this constant e-begging for attention. We aren't your therapists or mentors, you need to just leave people alone at this point. You've been on this forum for three years or so, long enough to have started this promised comic YOU HAVEN'T STARTED YET

[abigaillmartin]

What did RedLenai just say??

They specifically told you not to respond to them.

[JoshRaed]

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[Stargazer31]

You were blocked on literally everything else. Doesn't take a genius to figure out if you were blocked there or not

[JoshRaed]

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[IndigoShirtProd]

If you want to talk to me, don't reply here. Please. It's inappropriate and just shows that you really aren't listening to what RedLenai is saying. Unfortunately, you know how to reach me.

[JoshRaed]

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[abigaillmartin]

Your ADHD is NOT an excuse for your behavior! This is unacceptable!

[Stargazer31]

Red doesn't want to talk to you. So you tried to pay them to get their attention? Bloody hell... You seriously need to learn some boundaries because what part of "Red doesn't wanna talk" isn't going through to you?

[abigaillmartin]

You need to set boundaries. What you’re doing is petty and creepy!

[IndigoShirtProd]

@RedLenai I don't even know how to start so I'll say this. I'm sorry that you went through this. Having your boundaries crossed, him popping up where you least expect you. This all for giving advice in a forum where you thought, where we all thought, advice could be given without the receiver stalking us. I had been beta reading for him for a while, hoping that would keep him from putting as many posts in the forums. But I see that, he was doing far more than that. So again sorry. I've always appreciated your art and insight. At least from me, you're always welcome in the forum.

[Stargazer31]

I don't think anything less than divine intervention will stop his posting at this point TBH

[JoshRaed]

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[Stargazer31]

You have repeatedly cited your ADHD as a reason as to why you ask for so much help and don't make the comic you spend so much time talking about. If it's that bad you should've seeked professional help or found ways to improve your concentration rather than trawling an internet forum for hours. Doom scrolling will only make you worse but you didn't listen to ANY of our advice

[abigaillmartin]

@RedLenai
I am so sorry that this happened to you. This is horrible. I was shocked when I read this.

Is there anything I can do to help?