"Compromise" to me would be trying to reach an audience that was never going to be on board with Andy Christ's dark humor anyway. Like, it's what it says on the tin, you're going to like it or you're going to hate me.
But I am trying to consider the reader's feelings every step of the way, which I don't think is the same thing. I think art and fiction is a conversation, it's a dialogue, it's reaching out into the world and trying to connect. Even if you only do it for yourself, to say "This is how I feel," you still want people to see it and understand it. You have to make yourself clear. And in my case, I need to be aware of whether the violence is funny or upsetting. Which reaction do I want to elicit? Are my potentially offensive jokes funny enough to justify the risk of alienating people? Who's the "victim" of this joke? Am I punching down? Is my perspective on this really needed or have others said it better than I could?
To be clear, I don't think I've gotten GOOD at this. I've just gotten a little better. I think Andy Christ #2 is a tonal disaster of violence that can't decide if it's comedic or tragic. #4, however, is the most violent thing I've ever written, with lots of zombie children getting crushed, maimed, shot, exploded... But the TONE of all this comes off more cartoonish and goofy than mean, I think.
It takes a lot of empathy, self-awareness, and just plain practice to make a good educated guess about how your story will be received.
I had a really viscerally violent, horrible image in the script for the book I'm releasing right now. About a week before I was going to have to start drawing it, I debated with myself whether or not I should cut it and rewrite. The decision was made when I realized, very simply, I didn't want to draw this awful thing happening to this character I really love. If I don't want to draw it, how can I expect anybody to want to look at it?