So much THIS!!!! Especially that whole "victim to lover" bit, or the forced pregnancy. there are a lot of articles written how "romance" has changed to contributing to rape culture.
Yet we see women on vella bragging they're feminists and pushing this, and they keep trying to push it further. One of the big sellers there right now is women, for $$$$ signing contracts to marry the highest bidder in an auction for them. Why don't they call it what it is.... slavery. But, according to authors of this type of thing, the women know what they're doing so it's okay, they've been empowered. I read a little of the one story and found myself wanting to vomit. It's slavery, selling yourself to the highest bidder.
I write Wuxia which is fantasy, but when I saw all the erotica and "steamy" stuff being tagged under "fantasy" I pulled the story and tagged it strictly under martial arts etc. I'm dying there but I'll be damned if I'll pair the story with that stuff.
And we don't dare say anything because there is nothing as prickly as those writers. You can say something about just about any other genre and the authors shrug their shoulders and walk away, but not these people, they literally come after you, mute you on pages, make it impossible to comment or be heard.
Makes me think of the quote "Methinks thou dost protest too much." (misquote, sorry)