I feel like I'm missing something. Are people honestly saying that getting a "Thank You" message is...wrong? Mind you, I've stopped myself because it gets real tiring to post such a message, only for said person to unsub later. Which could be for any number of reasons but the reason I'm giving my "thanks" is because of the support given and if that support is lacking, than I honestly don't want to thank you. There's a reason I'm thanking the person.
With that said though, what's the problem? There's a big difference between "Thanking for subs" and "Asking for subs."
It would be like getting your cup of coffee from Starbucks, saying thanks, and the person at the cashier looking you dead in the eyes an going.
"I don't want your self pity, asshole."
And even in terms of asking for subs I don't blame. It is massively difficult to get attention here on Tapas without extra help such as getting spotlighted. Trying to get other people to notice your series is a good thing and if nothing else, you should be able to offer something in return. You might sub to their work an then ask if they'd be willing to check your work out.
Either way, unless I've missed something has the concept of compliments become negativity now?