The Bitching thread 2.0

[dawgofdawgness]

[SoFt]

Have you had that queued up this whole time x) ?

[dawgofdawgness]

quite possibly

[punkarsenic]

anyway, anyway! yes! moving on!

ive recently reconnected with a dear friend from school, and its really nice, but she has this habit of calling me out of the blue to chat. i really love it, but its so hard to double-focus, and i end up going 'yeah yeah yep' for whole conversations. :U she seems to appreciate it tho, its nice to hear from her

[punkarsenic]

i have a tonne of csp brushes now and i love each and every one, but bc i go so long between different stages of page making, i keep forgetting what brush ive been using for what stage. its so frustrating, i need to take more thorough notes ://

[dawgofdawgness]

That sucks, does CSP allow you to label the brushes like Sai?

[punkarsenic]

it does! but i dont wanna change the names and forget what they are, yknow? i wish it had a little notes section for each brush. the real solution is for me to like, film me making a batch sometime so i have the entire process to reference (thatd be a biiiiig file though)

or, well, make notes... but thats effort...

[dawgofdawgness]

Does anyone else get like "envious" of bi/pan people? I mean you get more choices, and if anyone asks what your sexuality is you can just say that you love everyone and you won't be judged as much. Like 15% of my school is bi/pan and I don't know a single person who is straight up gay. The only person I can truly relate to is one of my guy friends because he's so straight he's practically a lesbian

[punkarsenic]

he's so straight he's practically a lesbian

howmst?

i feel u, im the only person in my friendgroup who doesnt like guys (bi girls, straight girls, one gay guy) and its rly weird. kinda lonely, in a way? but im like aggressively deliberately proud of being a lesbian, so i dont find myself envying bi ppl a lot ig.

[SoFt]

I wouldn't say I outright envy them given the stigmas attached, but I will say that if I could choose, I'd prefer to be more attracted to men. I imagine it being easier to find a significant other, or at the very least a date T_T .

If I could be bi, I reckon that'd be close enough. Maybe. Depends how bi I was.

[spicy_sweets]

Tmw playing bayonetta has me questioning my sexuality >>

She's wayyy too amazing wtf

[Demy]

was going to comment on thread

"I wonder what's going on here!"

scrolls up

backs the fuck up

[dawgofdawgness]

One of us one of us

one of us

[LordVincent]

I have a slightly trickier struggle I guess?

Try being a transgender homosexual panromantic who in practice has very little interest in actually approaching romance with actual people and prefer fiction. Or rather, try explaining it to people when they ask

I usually just say I'm a gay dude to keep it short xD

[spicy_sweets]

Is there a difference between pansexual and panromantic?

[Chopythes]

Tapas forums in their excellence, I'd say <3

Aaaaaanyway, I'm tired. It's only 9pm and I want to go to bed already.
I wanna stay up til like 3-4am and draw comics but I'm probably sleeping before 10pm.
Don't get sleeping habits
(aka a routine because you end up sleepy at the same time every day D: )

[NickRowler]

Does anyone else get like "envious" of bi/pan people? I mean you get more choices, and if anyone asks what your sexuality is you can just say that you love everyone and you won't be judged as much.

This is not true. Being bi does not mean you love everyone, it just means you are sexually attracted to both men and women. You can still be judgy as fuck. Also, some straight people don't want to date bi people due to them feeling like they will cheat on them. Some gay people also feel a little iffy about bi people.

[Demy]

Doesn't that happen with most sexualities though?

[spicy_sweets]

But jesus

her overall build kills me

[punkarsenic]

theres this concept of the split attraction model, that originated in asexual/aromantic circles and spread. not everyone likes the use of the model, but in some cases it can be pretty useful

-sexual, a la pansexual or bisexual, is your sexual attraction. who you wanna bone, innit

-romantic, a la panromantic or aromantic, is your romantic attraction. who you wanna date and that

personally, i dont like using them outside of ace/aro talks, bc i feel like the understanding of whats sexual and whats romantic (and whats platonic) can get really murky and confusing, but i do see the appeal in the model