Ok, so this is bad.
You don't go into an open question like this expecting an answer, and then ignoring the tens of other answers that people give you and then explicitly say "the answer I was looking for was...". It leads to you asking leading questions and answering in bad faith to try and push people towards what you want them to parrot back at you, and them getting frustrated that you don't seem to listen.
You didn't get the answer you were expecting from anyone, despite many, many people answering. That should tell you, at the very least, that most people do not share your beliefs, and at the most that your beliefs don't hold up when confronted with wider human experience, and you should reconsider how accurate your belief is.
