This. It drives me crazy that so many "romance" stories feature this kind of abuse. If he's not physically abusive, he's mentally abusive to the victim, who just has to still there and take it. Until the moment where he finally decides that he cares for his partner. Not to mention the stories where if she does get away, he still has all the power. In the billionaire stories, they're often coworkers and he literally can block every high paying job in her field to drive them back together.
@WLHcomics I can only get behind the whole rivals/enemies to lovers tropes if the writer doesn't go to extremes. I've seen too often where Character A is an abusive jerk and all is forgiven when they fall in love. I like the ones where the characters are "divided" by an easily overcomeable obsticale, like a bad first impression, that puts them on the path towards understanding and friendship.