That´s a good start. You don´t have to force yourself to read what you don´t want
to read but it´s good to check out other people´s work.
I can only tell you how I do it and that wasn´t always the case, I used to have negative
and jealous feeling towards oher people.
It sounds simple but it´s not easy in the beginning, I try to find and focus on the
positive things and then tell the person. I also try to help other people without thinking
about what I gain from it. Trying to have a less egocentric world view and trying to
be seriously interested in other people
