One more quick thought, and this is sort of a side topic, but I want to express it while it's in my mind.
I really do support women writing BL, and it bugs me that this also gets a lot of heat. There's nothing wrong with women enjoying gay romance or even porn. For a long time anything remotely sexual was built for the straight male gaze, and especially lesbian 'relationships'. It wasn't about (and usually still isn't) lesbians being represented, it's just fap material made for dudes and is almost always unrealistic.
So as a gay dude, women have my full support in taking a step up in an industry that has been ripe with sexism and built for straight men. Enjoy what you enjoy. I don't care if it's gay porn or some cute romance. I'll enjoy it, too.