Ohhhh, a discussion on accurate racial depictions. What's that I hear under my feet. Eggshells?
I read through the whole thread expecting some light white shaming and I must say, I am a little disappointed. There was a bit, but not anywhere near the 2014 levels I was hoping for.
Maybe people are starting to pick up that 99% of the time, 'racial diversity' is just code for 'white people should be shamed for not filling their stories with people and cultures that aren't white'. Everyone else, carry on. Sorry, I'm not ranting at anyone in particular here, just what's been going on in popular culture over the last couple of years has left me pretty cynical.
One thing I will bring up though is this idea of stereotypes. Here's the thing. Stereotypes exist for a reason. That reason being, across a population, they're mostly true and can be quite useful. What I mean by that is, statistically, Asians really are smarter, and the women really are more socially timid. Black men really are more athletic. White people really do like guitar music. But these sorts of things only apply to large populations, and only on a spectrum, so for every person who exemplifies a racial stereotype, there will be someone else who runs totally counter to it. But that doesn't mean the stereotype isn't true. If it weren't, it wouldn't be a stereotype.
And here's where the honest representation thing comes in. People are want to say that if a person is an example of a racial stereotype, then that somehow isn't an honest representation. Or it's 'lazy'. But that simply isn't true. If you have a rich white guy who can't dance and only cares about making money, that is just as accurate a depiction as a poor white guy who doesn't care about money and can really cut a rug.
The issue as I see it then is the problem of coincidences in stories, which, in case you aren't aware of it, coincidences aren't really kosher. Despite being something that happens every day a billions of times over, they're just not accepted. Your villains can't be vanquished by randomly getting hit by a car. Your long lost lovers can't just be reunited by accidentally bumping into each other in some random city. So despite being entirely possible, coincidences generally just aren't accepted in stories. In fact, they're often scorned. How often do people say, "pfft. That would never happen in real life," when in fact, what they're referring to could quite easily happen?
So to get back to race, people who just happen to coincidentally fit their racial stereotypes aren't technically inaccurate representations, and I think most of the time when people complain about representation, it's because the depiction isn't particularly flattering. But all races and cultures have some range of tendencies that aren't all that positive, and we ignore those tendencies to the detriment of our stories.
Flaws maketh the man, so to speak.
Hey, but we're not writing statistical studies here, we're writing stories, full of individual people, not populations. So yes, it would be weird if all of your characters exhibited all the traits stereotypical to their race, but at the same time, don't be afraid to incorporate certain tendencies into their backstories and personalities. And whatever you do, don't ever let someone shame you into changing your story because it doesn't match their preconceived notions of "cultural sensitivity" or "inclusivity". That way tokenism lies.