Which of your ocs has more agency in the relationship?
If this means which of them is the person who can move the relationship forward, then I would say Ian. Although Mev is the one who initiated their relationship, they’re currently just friends and Mev would be okay with that until they both died of old age. Even if she does develop feelings for him, she won’t act on them unless she thinks he feels the same way. Ian on the other hand, if he does develop feelings towards Mev he’ll act on them eventually, because he’s not very patient.
