Idk if this has already been said because I speed read the whole thread.
But my only issue with Romance, BL or GL on Tapas is that the overwhelming percentage never bears any fruit.
It's all angst, triangles and misunderstandings. (And i used to love me some angst, but boy howdy.)
Would you believe that other kinds of conflict exist?, or for that matter, actual relationships?
TLDR: Give me the happy gays in a relationship and then work from there.