Are you ugly? 🤔

[LCT_m_a_d]

I think I'm aight ...

[indagold]

I'm a plain jane, don't wear make up and don't care.

[joannekwan]

I'm not super hot or super not. I won't turn heads either way.

[Zak]

Well, I mean. You don't have to point it out. lol

[ZatchZ]

I'm an Asian male, so statistically, yes.

[rmdooley]

'I came to this world to show how beauty is supposed to look like' ....but more as a morality tale of what not to look like

[Kelheor]

I always look so ugly in pictures. I look at myself in the mirror and I look differently... I have tricky angles because of my high cheekbones and squared jaw.

I feel you on so many levels, I have a chin Superman can be envious of, and the only person who ever took a good picture of me is me It's like freaking different people in different angles too.
Thank you! It is a very pretty up picture of me, haha ^^

[oshirockingham]

Why would you say that?
Asian Male ≠ Ugliness.
There are people who underwent plastic surgeons just to look like a South Korean guy.
But, if you're from a part of Asia that most people in the west wouldn't call it Asia, cough India.
I heard only Indian women find Indian men attractive.

[ZatchZ]

It's a joke based on how statistically on dating website Asian Males and Black Women are the least likely to get matched based on appearance.

[oshirockingham]

There are factors that affect the results, some of them are,
(only observation on straight singles)
1. conventionally attractive people rarely use dating websites
2. relationship anxious people will likely believe the stereotypes.
3. on dating app/web, girls tend to filter their search to at least 6 ft tall men, and most of the Asian males are shorter than that.
in the case of black women in dating web/app, most black women in dating app/web are overweight, and men, even the overweight ones tend to choose slim ones.
usually in the app/web, the Asian girls are the slimmest ones, that's why they're favored by the majority of straight male users in it.

[LittleMissDevil]

Depends, my normal face is overall pretty but nothing special I think. My therapist told me I was pretty last week tho, which was nice. With bad skin days or no sleep I certainly don't feel great about it, so compliments are appreciated.

I often put in effort with crazy hair colors, goth outfits and over the top make up and then I feel like the goddess of beauty itself. Like damn, my self esteem just goes through the roof if I put in the time and effort needed for a good goth make up. Glad that I find make up fun. It's like putting on the rest of my face, lol.

[SuperRazz]

Picked "maybe, I'm not sure." . back in highschool, boys used to tease me for being ugly. Crushed my self esteem . But now people don't ever comment enough on my appearance for me to assess what I really look like. I either look better now or people just don't care.

But personally, I like how I look. I don't tell anyone but I secretly think that I'm cute, doesn't matter if it's not true lol.

[unknown_user]

MY frontal phone camera thinks that I'm a villain...

[vothnthorvaldson]

Haha, India is one of the rare places where I find both genders equally super attractive (I'm a Latin/Germanic French).
I have no idea if it's the same for every bi /pan ( or everyone, in a esthetic only way), but I generally have different preferences for gender/origin combinations (eg. Spanish girls are generally attractive, Spanish guys generally not). It does not matter much, as I never chose partners based on looks only, but it's something I've always wondered. Are all bi/pan like that? Probably not, everything must exist. I'm curious, though.

[SoftRainfall]

Yes...... I am........

[octafg64]

I like my face but i can see how much uglier i am compared to handsy ppl

[oshirockingham]

There's always an exception in every case.
non-Indian straight girls usually turned off by Indian men's weird English accent IRL, and about the straight Indian men online, most of them are overly thirsty which is a big turn off for most girls. (and it only covers those IRL extroverts, not sure about the introverts one)
and it's only for the straight ones since different sexual preferences may lead to a lot of different results, who knows if non-Indian gay men or non-Indian bi girls find the Indian men super attractive.

[vothnthorvaldson]

Honestly I had no idea people could be so easily be physically repulsed by non-physical characteristics and a small online subsample. It makes no sense, or it's pretty much saying the average straight girl is severly racist

[oshirockingham]

I think we have some miscommunication here
I talked about preference and attraction tendency, tendency means there are exceptions.
Attraction preference is not a racist thing, social prejudice is.

[Swamp]

I tend to do bad with guys and straight girls, but pretty well with lesbians so...
depends on who you ask. I'm not to most people's taste, but I do fine for myself.