Before being misunderstood

[Klaustasya]

To those who have followed all the threads i made about the burn-out situation, i just wanted to say i'm okay now. Why am i saying this?
Because i'm afraid some people (not everyone) might had the wrong idea about me or even started to be annoyed by me (and possibly hate my presence on the forum) and i don't want this to happen, because i like talking with everyone and even reply to other people's thread when i have something to say, even when i know other's opinion are way better than what i could say, it's totally fine! I just don't want to unplease nobody or being judged in some way, just genuinely being with everyone on a forum that i personally love. I don't know if there is an etiquette or how i should behave in order to not become unpleasant for those who read my threads, i'm just sorry if i made things awkward and hope that i'm not being bad-seen for this

[QueenofBabyLoon]

People who are annoyed by someone having a hard time, being burned out, hitting a block, being depressed, being sick and looking for support are insensitive. But, trust me, they will become sensitive fast enough when they experience the same situation.

I am actually very happy that you addressed the issue. This is one thing that can bring us all together. Because we all go through this eventually. And we might not discuss it because of this very sentiment that we are a burden to those surrounding us. Well, we are not. Especially not on the net, where people come together to discuss anonymously of their problems, give advice and support under the cover of anonymity (to reduce the stigma).

So, a message to those who are annoyed by humanity and what comes with it, how about you don't read the threads and posts that annoy you?

[DokiDokiTsuna]

Hey, there's nothing wrong with NOT being okay. Venting feelings on the internet is a totally common thing to do, and I doubt there were too many people annoyed by it, if anyone.

And even if people were annoyed by it, so what? They're your true feelings; if people ever start to hate you for being your honest self in an open forum, wear their hatred as a badge of honor. u_u

(Take it from me; I've started loads of unpleasant topics, and I'm pretty sure there are people here who actually dislike me. ^^; But, y'know, that's life...)

[Klaustasya]

Thank you for the kind words
Sometimes i just get the feeling that i might trouble too much peoplr with my venting cause i'm so bad at weighting words XD but your reply really comforted me, i'm really glad ^^

[mong2]

Not really sure about your situation but nice to see you're feeling okay. Like DokiDoki said, venting over the internet is super common. And besides, this isn't the first time people used this forum to vent so don't beat yourself up over it . Though I would recommend keeping away from too much details when venting, it is the internet after all.
That being said, I do think it should be done in moderation. For example, if you spend days/weeks creating 10+ topics all venting about the same thing, that is gonna annoy people.

If you're worried you can always go to the Emotional Support thread. No one should be annoyed with you venting there.

[Klaustasya]

Thank you so much for redirecting me in a more suited place for this ^^ didn't know it was here!
And yes, i think i've annoyed someone because i created more threads with that single vent, repeatinf myself, but...more than venting i was looking for help, of course i had useful suggestions but i shouldn't have pushed.

[simplykit]

well understood buddy

you do you

feel better and keep the faith