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Nov 2024

Is your OC an extension of yourself? Does any criticism or praise of them affect you in any way, shape, or form?

Here's a couple experiences I've had regarding OCs...


1) got banned from a discord server for role playing with someone's character ai bot OC. She got extremely offended by the childish immature role play scenarios I did...
A) I'm role playing a pretty girl and trying to get him to cheat on his girl
B) same as A but playing a gay dude.
C) roleplaying an incel asking him to teach me how to become Chad
D) roleplaying as an angry drunk insulting him to provoke a "fist fight"


2) got into a flame war with a mentally ill dude and his gf who is far worse than him. Long story short, after many back and forth nasty things said, I eventually got a drawing of Claudita (my oc) as an old used up crack whore.

And I was like... "that was meant to insult me?" They came up with better insults than that previously... :laughing:

Both experiences happened way back... not in the recent past.

So... how identified are you with your OC?

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My main 6 OC's are each extensions of specific personality traits of mine. One of them was originally basically a self-insert in both personality and design, but I changed him up enough when I started the series and as the series progressed that I can separate myself from the things I write for him.

I haven't really gotten much critique of my characters yet. Praise/criticism of my comic as a whole does effect my mood/self-esteem to an extent, so criticism of the characters would also too, but in a deep way like I relate/am my OC's, no.

For Wild Nights, Hot and Crazy Days I literally am the MC. For Defining Daecon, Daecon is everything I wish that I could be: Young, hot, rich, and a shapeshifter

Maybe when I was younger, like a teenager or early 20s. I was a lot more emotionally charged then, a lot more unstable and latched onto the things that made my life less miserable hard-- my characters and stories were just that. But I'm like, almost 30. Basically a hag now. haha; that is to say, I've matured, I like to think. I can't remember the last time a random commented something bad on a character that effected me in any way honestly.

Of course I have characters I created and accidently poured too much of me into them. A great example is Louis, I guess. He's from a private collaboration project. Abused teenager with a big attitude that masks his fear. Self destructive and suicidal hidden behind typical young man gusto and humour. Funny since I'm a woman, always have been, and nearly 30. But it's hard not to see him as the younger version of myself, I suppose.
Now if people made fun of him or whatever I don't think I'd care. The only person who can irk me in regards to him is my collaboration partner-- and boy howdy does she. Louis was horrifically abused, and had become very sex repulsed. He was meant to be a side character to foil a main character-- not important. But my friend got attached and made him a ~love interest~ and no matter how many times I rejected the idea she kept talking as if it was a done deal and happening. So I told her Louis is not capable of ever creating a family due to his hangups (since her happy endings are always married with kids). Yet she pushed it and kept talking as if happy family with 2 kids was the epiloge no matter how many times I said no.... so, uh, I killed him. I wrote a short story about how that life would ruin him, how he'd grow to hate his family, and result in his suicide. She doesn't want to work on the story anymore. :slight_smile:

All that said, I think that's more being bothered with the lack of respect for me, not Louis in particular. He's just the proxy. She does have a habit of bulldozing. And then I retaliate with sabotaging the story. Vicious cycle, really. Though she and I haven't wrote anything together in years, and she has a baby now. It's for the best. She and I shouldn't write together.

I don't think criticism of my characters affects me anymore than whether I'm a strong or weak writer. I don't find myself believing any of my characters are me, but I do occasionally feel defensive of the characters when people haven't gotten to know enough about them before judging them lol. My male lead has been through a lot, some of which I can relate to, some I can't, but I try to write all my characters as humans, and I want people to understand them rather than assuming certain people are just villainous.