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I sort of thought that too about the forbidden love thing. And like a femininity and masculinity thing. It's never been taboo for girls to hug, hold hands, and touch one another (and I mean this mainly platonically), but it's always been a taboo for men to do that the way women can (in Western culture anyway). I think people enjoy reading stories where that barrier is being torn down.
That said, I'd love to see GL get it's own category.

It's cause girls don't like seeing other girls doing the dirty, makes them squicked out. Same with dudes into lesbo porn. It's not rocket science. Fujo girls probably read comics more then men too so there's a surplus.

They're probably also turned off by the horrid acting by women in porn. I feel like it's harder to tell when someone is faking when they're the opposite gender.

If they were they wouldn't be reading yaoi in the first place lol

Thank you for your thoughtful response. It's interesting that you brought up how the media might be influencing people to have less desire to write good female characters. I suppose Tapas is mostly new creators finding their feet, so perhaps instead of challenging the way women are written, they feel more comfortable being influenced by their favourite male characters and writing characters like them.

I also hope to see more genuine queer stories being told, rather than the fetishisation of gay men.

Yes! supply and demand. I think a lot of the BL isn't written or aimed towards queer people though, and is consumed by mainly straight women. It'd be nice to see a broader range of queer stories by queer creators.

This makes total sense. Thank your for your response. I hope that eventually it's easier for woman to explore their desires and sexuality in their art rather than creating a male character to stand in for them.

I have yet to see a realistic webcomic about a plumber’s whirlwind romance!

I mean... well... I've seen guys holding hands, looking at each other, kissing... touching.... etc.........

and it is hot.

fans self

It's just human nature and something that can't be controlled.

Why are [anime/manga] guys so hot.

ugh.

It's a blessing and a curse.

But I don't read much BL actually because the plot/art styles don't really interest me. This might be getting at what @gempompadour was saying about their friend who likes "slash" more than BL. I think slash would mainly refer to when you ship characters together who aren't necessarily together. I love to slash characters together more than I like most BL! Maybe because there's a deeper relationship between the characters that goes beyond just a romantic attraction? Like they're friends first and get along well.

Or there's UST (unresolved sexual tension) between them? That's nice too.

There are basically five main topics on the forum that are often repeated:

1) Why is BL so popular?
2) Promote your webcomics
3) What are you eating, viewing, etc.?
4) My comic isn't popular; should I kill myself?
5) Writer seeks artist for mutual pleasure

WAIT I HAVE ENCOUNTERED THE INFAMOUS WET BUTTHOLES IN YAOI but WTF IS UP WITH THE UPSIDE DOWN DICKS THING

I'm dying to know about this. Are we talking about balls on top? The ole' case of the hovering balls?