From what I've read of theirs, they're from a very sheltered possibly religious/conspiratorial background judging by some of the jargon that is from Qanon and fundamentalist christian/christianity-based cult spaces, in any case not somewhere that has helped them learn critical thinking/analytical skills. They also don't seem to have read/watched a wide range of stories.
Also slightly worried about someone with this little barometer of how people act, react and feel about stuff writing cnc, which unless cnc also means something else, is short for "consentual non-consent" in fiction, also called "r*peplay" and can and often does become just sexual assault if written clumsily.
For those reasons, concepts that seem basic to us are groundbreaking to them, plus they don't have the tools to analyse these thoughts on their own yet and that makes a lot of their questions seem absurd. I'm hoping getting answers on the forums and seeing that a lot of stuff they say is either very basic storycrafting most people understand implicitly or completely out of pocket conspiracy theories will help them recentrer themselves.