Wanted to add in this thread that all the opinions here are really insightful
I even realized I'm guilty of some stuff people are pointing out
like the linking the story after asking about something lol
To the person that said it's disingenuous, you see, there can be people like me that are so not used to using the forum that you just copy what others do
I like talking to others a lot, but I was imitating other threads where people did that, I didn't know it was something that was 'bad' xD I thought that's what people did just like how on instagram people use the I believe 30 tags on the pictures cause it's encouraged so... I think I'd only tell you and whoever reads this, that, before pointing to someone and assuming they're disingenuous, they could only be guilty of not knowing proper etiquette lol
So, I'd say give them the benefit of the doubt before just assuming they aren't sincere
I mean, I'm guilty of those things and only reading this thread did I find out it was distasteful x'D sounds dumb but I really didn't use the forums until like some days ago so, since I know this was my mistake, I know others can do the same mistake as well, haha
I'm not saying there's not disingenuous people cause they really are those, but like, just consider there can be clueless people that don't know what they're doing isn't okay
I feel kinda stupid now but I can't do much about what I already did but not do it again x'D
Soo, like, it'd be wise to give them a chance and form an opinion based on their answers XD
Being hard on others or judging them is assuming they know the same things you do and assume they do it on purpose lol. But I get where you're coming from, and I'm actually thankful I read your opinion and others with like-minded comments to learn better etiquette 