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Aug 2022

I've been on Tapas for just over 2 years, and I've noticed that it's a lot friendlier than many other social media sites. In fact, I chose to post my comic on Tapas because it was smaller, and there was probably less of a chance of being mistreated due to the smaller number of people using it. Despite this, I can't help but wonder- have any of you ever experienced bullying or harassment on Tapas or the Tapas forums?

I haven't really been here that long, but I must say it's one of the nicest communities I have seen. In fact, on my first day of posting here, someone volunteered to help me out with a novel cover for free.
I know this may be a bit common here but I was still mind blown ngl.

I've been here 6+ years, and yeah my experience and what I've heard from other users is the place is very welcoming and the audience friendly and positive! Nothing is perfect, of course. There's little dramas that pop up here and there on the forums, and isolated incidents of people being jerks. But my personal experience has been extremely positive with this community. :grin:

I wouldn't really call it "Harassment", but i have gotten two callout posts DM'ed to me by two let's just say rather colorful individuals who were upset at me that I got their threads closed down after they got out of hand and derailed. Thankfully, I just reported on them, didn't respond, and they bailed/got banned for their general antics soon after.

I only made good experiences here. There were some provoking comments but everyone was calm and grown up about it
and for me this is also the nicest online community

Nope, and that’s a good thing :+1:. We don’t need toxic people causing problems to this forum, and it’s really nice to have courteous people.

I've had a bit of harassment before here yes, it's been resolved.
But mainly the issues I have seen in the past, that there is a positivity police kind of mentality where unless you have a happy stance on something, you might get doxxed.
I've seen several very intelligent and well spoken people either get straight up banned for having strong (yet valid) opinions, or hounded until they leave by other users who disagree with them. Some of them left of their own will when they realized there was no point to even speak out.

The forums are a shell of what they used to be even back in 2018. It's one of the reasons I don't hang out here as much. It's boring, there's no spice of interesting yet civil disagreements and discussion of opinions.

Years ago there was this one person who started out OK and nice, but I am not sure what happened. I guess they got caught up with a online group obsessed with conspiracies and was groomed into believing extremely sexist, racist, antisemitic, and homophobic things. And I think the mods could not take their drama anymore and just permabanned them.

I found it sort of sad because I hear this happens with some young men on the internet, they end up with a bad crowd and it morphs their mind. I do hope they did eventually escape that bubble of the internet.

I haven’t experienced much harassment here. Although, there have been a few people on the forums who have chosen to go out of their way to point out things I said that they didn’t like for one petty reason or the other. The best I could do in those situations is ignore them. And if they did bug me again, I just stay off the forums for a while.

Overall, it’s a pretty chill community.

I've been harrassed a few times, including DMs on at least three occasions, (and even one person who continued to harrass me in DMs on the main site when banned from the forums), but not so much recently. Since the discord started up, a lot of the people who just want to rant have moved over there instead, and the mods here have generally been good at tackling this stuff.

There has historically been a bit of an issue, which I've heard many times from different people, with the forums being a bit hostile towards people with larger subscriber counts (and not even that big in the grand scheme of things, like over 500 subs), especially if they happen to be LGBTQ+ and create content themed in LGBTQ+, BL or GL. It's why you don't see a lot of people with larger sub counts here. There's often a bitterness towards people who have managed to build a larger audience on the platform rather than an eagerness to learn how they did it or to try to replicate their success through emulating their methods.

It does seem to be better these days, but the reputation still lives on, sadly. I mostly post here just to try to help other people out 'cause I like doing it, and if I want to talk to people about relateable problems being in that annoying middle zone of a few thousand subs, I go to private discords because so few people around that level feel comfortable posting here. It's a shame though, because when I was a newbie, hanging out on places like the Sweatdrop forums, where I could get advice from people a bit further along in their comics development with professional experience, or success in doing the things I wanted to do in a casual, accessible way was so useful to me.

Well not really, the worst that happened was a individual or two pushing me when I was in a bad mindset

Come across the occasional troll sometimes.

I tend to steer clear of any arguments or heated discussions. It gives me anxiety. :sweat_smile:

Pretty much what @nathanKmcwilliams and @darthmongoose said. I've seen some dogpiling here and there, as well as a bit of intolerance when it comes to certain viewpoints of people from non-US/English speaking countries. Admittedly I've probably done a little dogpiling myself without thinking about it. There was definitely a push for fluffy/positive mentalities that seemed to come around when there was a wave of censorship of uncomfortable or adult queer stuff going around social media. Haven't seen it so much here anymore, but the forum is pretty much made up of like 15 regulars and the occasional rando coming in the promote their stuff. With Tapas no longer promoting it, and using Discord instead.

Also Darth's point on the hostility towards creators with larger subs. Hooo boy, remembering a promo thread that popped up for creators with 1k or more subs (A single thread in a sea of promo thread for everyone.), some folks got so butthurt. x'D

(Honestly surprised I haven't been dogpiled or pushed off the forum yet. I go hard on uncomfortable shit, and controversial viewpoints, but I can be kinda parasitic with forums. Lmao!)

I wouldn't call it harassment per se, but I feel like when I initially got here there was a small population of forum users who just wanted someone to be mad at, and being an opinionated young clown I was often chosen to be that person. ^^; There was definitely a period where topics I chose to discuss "didn't belong on the forum" simply because I was the one starting them, apparently...

Fortunately, those people have moved on, and I've mellowed out, and things are a lot calmer now. ^^ A little dull, but calm and peaceable.

No. But I always observing heated threads and learn from them. :slight_smile: (it may have discouraged me to start some topics)

Favoritism from the uppers and dogpiling the lesser accepted opinions have been around but anyone who points it out is promptly ostracized for it. The people above calling it positivity police pretty much nailed it. Don't ever let dissent exist and problems will never arise.

/rant

I read a lot but rarely comment. Lots of very helpful and informative conversations of course, hence I hang around.

I haven't personally, but I've just recently started using the forums. Actually, I think forums in general are a lot quieter than they used to be, since people mostly go to big centralized sites these days....could be one reason why.