Snare traps bated with fresh memes and cupcakes.
Honestly, I've met the most amount of buddies by being upset that there isn't an easier way to meet people and proactively finding ways to fix that. Organizing events and meet ups about your favorite things is the fastest way to find a bunch of people who are into what you're into, and I happen to enjoy event planning, so that works for me. I've met some really cool people since moving to the east coast by just hosting Sailor Moon meetups or "hey do you like tea, let's go get afternoon tea together" type things.
That being said, WHO'S IN THE NYC AREA? Let's have a comic creation party!