Here's the exact error message from gmail:
The response from the remote server was:
The recipient server did not accept our requests to connect. Learn more at https://support.google.com/mail/answer/7720 [tapasmedia.com 209.99.40.223: timed out]
Final-Recipient: rfc822; submissions@tapasmedia.com
Action: delayed
Status: 4.4.1
Diagnostic-Code: smtp; The recipient server did not accept our requests to connect. Learn more at https://support.google.com/mail/answer/7720
[tapasmedia.com 209.99.40.223: timed out]
Last-Attempt-Date: Mon, 30 Jan 2017 14:13:27 -0800 (PST)
Will-Retry-Until: Wed, 01 Feb 2017 11:30:43 -0800 (PST)