The thing is that a lot of people has been patient to him since the moment he got here, many of us at first really tried to help him as much as possible, some were even thrilled to have a new person so interested in learning, but as time went by he didn't ask for a helping hand, he would drag the whole body with him.
Like really, there was a time that if we didn't reply to him when he wanted he would go into our DMs and ask us to answer to him, especially if you called out his bluff whenever he claimed he did something besides posting endlessly in the forum, when more began to express their disbelief he admitted he didn't do any of the things suggested or never bothered into trying and putting into practice what other creators provided as resources or more.
There were literally times when we asked him what he would do if he went into a power outage, lost access to the internet, because he even began to ask stuff that could easily be googled or even things that he could answer himself. It really felt like he couldn't type nor draw anything of his own personal stuff without making a whole essay on the forum first.
Several of us are neurodivergent too, we have recommended things to help him from ADHD to ASD perspectives, several of us we did get annoyed because it was literally a ping-pong against a wall, the more he went on the more it was obvious he only did all of this to get attention, but many eventually began to just ignore his threads and probably the less active ones or newest people that joined are bothering in paying attention to him.
Many of us have told him, made graphics even, about him needing to be patient if he wanted to improve on his art or writing, that he doesn't need to tiptoe and ask everything about every single small things regarding his story, we have addressed and tried to figure out if its fear of failure, self-steem, lack of discipline, unrealistic goals, etc. But nothing works, he is just... an unsatiable void
Many times back when this all started, several were nice and tried deeply to make him understand that it was starting to get frustrating to deal with him since there was no outcome nor satisfaction from helping him, some of us even began to tell him that and its like he couldn't care less and again and again went onto more questions, branches and branches of sub-topics that honestly it would just drive anyone dizzy, even the most caring and selfless person, even the most patient and reliable people that I knew since 2017 here has lost their patience with him.