Perks of being genderfluid - not caring about pronouns XD I go with she/her by default since that's my sex since birth, but I don't correct people when they refer to me as a male. Because to me both are fine.
I did correct people in the past, but after a long journey of self-discovery, gender doesn't matter anymore. When someone asks "are you boy or girl?" I just reply "yes" :''D (or "potato")
I happened to misgender people online but luckily not while talking to them. Bless English for that XD I only noticed my mistake after checking their profile or when their friends talked to me.
When my characters get misgendered, I only get offended when the person did absolutely zero effort to notice the specified gender in various places - example: just about yesterday someone asked me "is it a boy or a girl" - in a BL comic (the cover says BL, the disclaimer says BL, there's ONLY two characters), where the description blatantly said it's two dudes, not to mention the countless comments yelling GAY! in case they failed to percieve the male anatomy. So yeah got me pretty baffled. How do you miss all those hints???
Only other time I got offended was when someone huffed at me saying "well that character's hair is too long to be a boy" and I wondered which planet that person came from to miss the fact that men CAN have long hair...
Otherwise I just drop a quick correction and that's it, it's out of my system.
I do misgender characters in comics and art, so sorry for that >.< (It's not on purpose) I apologize if it's brought up in a conversation with the artist.
Sorry for rambling :V