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Do you guys got parents or family members reading your comic? If so, does it affect your work? Do you change stuff to suit them?

For me, they don't, but I know for a fact that someday they'll wanna check my comic out so as a result... so I keep them in mind. They act as my restraints so I don't go TOO far with ma' stories.

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For my novel, and absolutely not.

With my wip comic maybe??? I haven't shared too many details.

Some of them do read and buy my print collections, so that can make me feel antsy about what I put in my material. However, I try not to let it affect me too much to the point of watering down my writing even if I do unconsciously have some restraints on what I'll show.

One thing that does bring a little solace about that is that I've already created an entire backlog of material before they even considered looking at what I made, so they'll probably see the worst of what I've shown.

Husband's (writer's) mom is checking out our comics sometimes. My mom doesn't, since our comics are in English, but she's subbed to my Instagram, liking attack that stuff :doggo_shook: We are not taking any of it into consideration, even though sometimes mom is asking me some stuff that makes my inner teenager cringe a lot, but I understand she's doing it with the best intentions, so I just try to close the topic as quickly as I can :smile:
"It's just art and it has nothing to do with my personal life".

Most of my family doesn't know English (nor do they know I'm making a comic), and even if they did, I'm not sure if that would be a hindrance at all
I did have to clarify to my mom that the stuff I created was 100% fictional, not based on anything from my life outside of the internet

For me I purposely dump little bits of my personality into almost all my characters so I honestly can't use that excuse which sucks lol. My Mom even notices stuff that I don't so I'm like "Huh... I guess this character is based on this experience or this thing...".

On their own, no. But my mom worked as an editor for a while, so she likes going over it with me to clarify dialouge. My dad read it for a while then fell off and my Lil bro reads them in bursts but doesn't really get the story and just wants to support me.

During editing I have managed to get my mom to laugh with my dumb jokes in the comic. Which makes me immensely happy.

I'm honestly fine with it. It's not like it's detrimental to the point where I'm like "they're holding me back" lol. One of the biggest ones is "no swearing" and I've been trying to commit to that. At this point it's a game and it's helped me come-up with clever insults while also making certain characters more intimidating.

The thing is I get certain rules like "no nudity", "no sex", "no blasphemy".... they're okay with violence and psychological horror tho which is a total plus. Just no gore.

Oh i decided very early on that I was going to do whatever I wanted. My comics vary from family friendly to very adult with sexual content. It didn’t matter when I wasn’t talking to my family about it but now that they know its my entire livelihood they just know what I do.

My mom and her husband are very very supportive and even brag to their friends about me because they think its the coolest thing in the world that I support myself with my little ideas and words and doodles. My dad on the other hand knows but I’m not sure he’s super thrilled about the content. As far as I’m concerned he didn’t raise me and that opinion means nothing to me. Also I’m not going to take a hit on my income just to appease someone. Its simply not worth it.

I have my cousins reading my comics and they really like it. It encourages me to keep writing. My grandpa is also reading it but he doesn’t seem to remember most of it my siblings also read it as well.

My mum sometimes red my comics and therefore I made a large part of my current comic uninteresting to her, because later I write about really personal things that also include her (also parents of MC look exactly like mine)

My bro knows I draw and make novels and at one point held fix an programming error in a game i was making, he just aint reading them. And Im fine with that I rather not have my family know the horrific stuff I draw and write.

For all they know I draw flowers and jesus

Noooope I would not want my parents reading my comics ... or at the very least, not read them while knowing I'm the one who made them :'D They're not interested in webcomics and one of them doesn't have much English under their belt, so that's probably not gonna happen anyway XD

Other family members ... maybe, when they get to an age where they can handle things :]

While I know some wouldn't immediately show any judgement, I would never like that to happen

Nope. I hide my stuff in the deepest closet and tell no one in real life I write. Ok, a little bit of an exaggeration. I talk about my writing a lot with my husband and sister, but they don’t read it. So… I write some wild stuff!

I let my siblings read them so they could give me feedback and suggestions.
As for my parents, my father was curious about it, and I think he read a couple of chapters. He dislikes the profanities I use, but later, he understands that it gives character. My mother sadly doesn't understand English.
I don't mind my family reading my work. But probably not my extended family. I'll be embarrassed!

No, and fortunately they're highly unlikely to. They are vaguely aware that I'm making a comic, because I've mentioned it a few times, but I don't think they even know the title, and none of 'em are the type to read webcomics for fun anyway. Which I am 100% fine with.

I don't really show my family MOST of my art, in fact. My mom went a little 'Satanic Panic' when I was a teenager and made it clear she didn't approve of magic, monsters, superpowers, etc. Of course, rather than stop reading/writing/drawing that stuff (and making fluffy Christian stuff like she probably wanted me to...), I just... hid it.

It took me a long time to be able to trust real IRL people other than a few close friends with my actual, non-decoy art, again.

My dad made the handlettering for my last printed comic and my mum helped me with the
dialogue. They are both over 80. My brothers family, wife, nieces read my comic.
It´s a silly cartoonish family friendly comic.

I have other stories, comics which are not family friendly and I don´t share
them with anyone for some reasons. 1) I will start teaching kids next year
2) I don´t want creative decisions / thoughts to be influenced by society/family.
When you have one thought about the "target audience" it will have influence on
your expression as an artist and that´s something I want to avoid. I don´t want
to communicate with anyone when I´m doing art, my goal is to create something
that I love without thinking about what other people exspect me to do or want
to see

I'd pretty much have to write under a pseudonym and publish in secret to avoid my mum reading my comics. :sweat_02:

I'm from a small town, and I've been doing professional work in comics and placing in national comics competitions since I was in my early twenties. My parents are very proud of me and I learned as a kid, it doesn't matter if what I'm drawing is the weebiest, trashiest anime stuff, they will show it to the entire town if I even just leave it somewhere where they can find it (as a child this was leaving it somewhere in the house, as an adult, it's putting it anywhere on the internet that can be found via my name) whether or not they're given permission.

On the upside and to their credit, my parents are perfectly fine with me being gay, making comics with LGBTQIA+ characters and themes, and fortunately since my parents are staunchly socialist and feminist, it's hard to put political stuff in my work that will upset them (in fact my mum loves all the political themes in my work).

....But I still don't like putting stuff in my work where I'd feel uncomfortable if my parents, siblings, all my old teachers saw it. I'm not ashamed of being gay, so having characters be gay in my work is fine, and I'm long-past being embarrassed about being a weeb, so I happily draw manga trash about people with spikey hair and giant swords, but I draw the line at anything ecchi. 'Cause when the character is leering at and sexualising other characters... it's kind of you, the creator doing it in a way (because you're the one drawing the body and choosing the angle, it's your gaze), and I just don't want my parents seeing me drooling over ladies... that's just....eugh, it's like if you went to a strip club and took your parents along to watch you getting a lapdance or something! :cry_02: