I dress like a bum. Short shorts, t-shirt, sometimes a sports bra. Or maybe no bra.
But Iām home almost all the time and I rarely feel like dressing nice, especially because that means Iād have to wear an actual bra and I hate wearing those around the house cuz my boobs are so big and I HATE trying to relax then my underwire is killing me if I lean too much. I like contorting in my chair so loose clothes all the way for me.
If I gotta go out Iāll throw on a bra, different t-shirt, and either jean shorts or blue jeans. Me being a bum extends to showers as well so I often just look gross in general.
My rule is āif I canāt do anything with my hair then why bother with anything else?ā.
Thing is I do like fashion and love having a chic style. Back when I was working for a lawyer I dressed nicer regularly. Formfitting tops, skater skirts, tights, heels, experimented with hair styles, nice accessories, the works. Most of it could also be worn as Church clothes too. I also like hats, my favorite is this black wide rimmed one I can wear with a lot of stuff.
But then I was let go since my boss moved and then I got fatter so now my favorite skirt doesnāt fit, my dresses donāt fit, my nice tops donāt fit cuz both my waist and my boobs got considerably bigger. And I canāt afford newer stuff.
Most of what I own is impractical to wear casually out, so I used to just throw on my black skater skirt, and typically a graphic tee that was form fitting.
Like I said tho Iām home almost all the time so I just donāt bother. If I know Iāll be going somewhere in a few days Iāll dress slightly nicer and fix my hair.