I did clarify in the post that it was "on the verge of being called an ist." but as someone else said, I do feel there were unnecessary personal attacks on this thread.
While I agree that romance is the selling point of straight romances, it is primarily catered to a straight female audience, not a male audience, so it still is missing out on a wide audience (males). Nobody said there's anything wrong with marketing to those audiences, I just think you will miss out on a bigger audience if you ONLY market to that audience.
I need a citation for the thing you said about Titanic. XD Where is the statistic that shows no males enjoyed Titanic? Even if they didn't enjoy it, they clearly went to see it since it is so highly grossing, so the marketing for it was successful. But I do believe that plenty of dudes enjoy Titanic, including my dad and brother. I enjoy it, too, even though I think it is kinda goofy LOL, and I am a lady.
Also, I see plenty of threads on Tapas marketing stories solely based on "my story has LGBTQ representation." the difference being that Tapas has a built in audience for that so it makes sense to do so.