31 What is the most attractive trait/attribute a person can have (sfw)
Kattar: That's basically impossible to select from all the traits a person could have. You'd need to narrow it down into at least into physical and then emotional traits, maybe even facial features, physical features, skills, and then emotional features.
Alicia: I don't think it has to be that complicated, Kitty Kat.
Andrew: I don't have a lot of physical features I'm set on, but I guess a cute face would be one I like.
Jinho: Yeah, but faces are made up of so many traits that you can't really count that as one thing.
Andrew: Okay, then a round face shape? I guess? Like I said, I'm not that set on physical features, but just being a loving, compassionate person is the most attractive trait a person can have I think.
Jinho: Okay but what qualifies as loving and compassionate? isn't being 'loving' a combination of traits as well?
Kattar: Ugh!
Alicia: We really don't need to debate semantics this much you guys.
Andrew: wait a minute what makes a trait different than a feature? isn't this like the same as picking an ideal type?
Alicia: No, I think traits are things like habits, skills and such.
Andrew: Wait then I guess I have to change my answer. There are lots of traits I find attractive. Mostly being intelligent, hardworking and self-motivated/driven.
Jinho: That sounds more like the requirements in a job description than an ideal type.
Kattar: If that's a problem my mother is guilty of the exact same thing. I guess I'd choose being really frank and open with your feelings the most attractive trait a person could have. Whether you're upset, or affectionate, or angry, I have a lot of respect for people who are unafraid to show how they're thinking or feeling. In the realm of other traits I guess I consider neatness and attention to detail attractive.
Alicia: (frowns slightly) Well at least I give attention to detail in certain arenas...anyway I guess the traits I find most attractive are being self-controlled, and dependable. I define dependable both as someone you can rely on to do what they say they're going to do, and to always be there for you, but also someone who you can tell your secrets and feelings without fear they're going to judge you or stop loving you.
Jinho: (rolling his eyes) Wow, I wonder if she's ever met someone like that...
Andrew: (cheerfully) Oh don't be such a cynic.
Jinho: What, wasn't anybody going to say being able to play the guitar or write poetry?
Alicia: Well how about you then, Jinho?
Jinho: You can drag me to my grave but I'm not participating in this. (Alicia and Kattar both roll their eyes.)
Melissa: Patience! I'm such a high strung little thing, I need a guy who can deal with my crazy. Fortunately my Miguel is a saint. He never complains about my antics and he's just so sweet to me. In the realm of physical traits, if I should include those too then...muscles! My hubsy has some arms on him, but I should stop talking before my sister-in-law scolds me XD.
32: How do you dress up when you want to feel confident.
Alicia: well first of all I wash my hair. I really don't do that enough. then I'll sometimes try to do my makeup, but I'm so bad at it and rarely improves my look at all, so I usually end up washing it off again. Then I sort through the like two nice dresses I own or my piles and piles of clothes to try to pair together something that looks kind of mature and chic. That's harder than it needs to be honestly. Most of my closet is full of really ugly clothes, and while I usually don't mind weary quirky or weird outfits, I have a few things that even I won't wear and I have no idea what to do with them. I have like two babydoll dresses that I'm 90% sure I didn't buy that Kattar absolutely HATES. I think he would actually stop talking to me for like two weeks if I ever went batty enough to wear them in public.
Jinho: I just wear whatever I wear normally. I don't dress up and clothes don't give me any more confidence if I'm having a day where I feel meh.
Andrew: Yeah, I think I'm with Jinho on that one.
Kattar: I put a lot of effort into my clothes everyday because I want to look nice. Usually that means layering sweaters and jackets and such because I'm pretty thin, but I supposed when i'm really trying to look nice, or overthinking everything I'll often wear some jewelry like earrings or a necklace, or style my hair a little differently than usual.
Melissa: Oh I don't know. I like wearing my crazy weird outfits most of the time. I wear Crocs to work, I wear shirt dresses, I wear plaid, and I know my hubby thinks I look pretty all the time. But when I'm really trying to look dressy for him I usually wear something black like a sheath dress and some heels. I hate heels though, they feel just awful.