Oh no, we were holding on to the title because we wanted him to pay off the car first. It's still the family car legally. He was suppose to have car insurance. He was ticketed for not having insurance and driving in the left lane for so long on the highway. And actually you're right, we do have to work out issues. Lots of issues. Everyone's advice is so helpful. Thank you so much for letting me, vent. Not in a hurry to get married.
Update
I looked in the trunk. There were drugs in the trunk. I threw it away. I can't believe I ever thought about dating someone like him.
Btw, we got the car back. My ****fiancee has to go to court and pay $443....in Emporia. My mom and I drove an hour or so to get there. We had no idea where we were got lost. Ended up a the police station, who were very rude. Waited at least an hour and they found my mom use to be a cop. When they found that out, they're tune changed automatically. We drove down to the tow lot, ran away from a Doberman. Eventually the tow guy came and released the vehicle to us. My mother paid a lot of money for the car back and put it back in our insurance.
***Fiancee is a place holder at this point. The car is back and he told me not to look in the trunk.