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Sep 2020

i'm Cic gender and questioning? I feel sexual attraction towards women but certain kind? had to explain. always wanted to ask someone but was a bit too shy and afraid of being judged. :blusht:

Attraction comes in a lot of different forms! Nothing wrong with questioning that. It took me a long time to recognize that I was attracted to men and women.

LOL ok.. I think Lawfully Neutral, Neutral Butch, and Chaotic Butch in regards to my type.
I consider myself a bit on the Fem side but not too fem. so I can't postally be with a fem. :expressionless:
anyway, I like guys too the same but except for feminine guys.

nah... just not my thing.If I'm with a fem then I automatically fall into the dominant role and I can't keep up with it so I'd rather just bee with someone who already assume that position. does it make sense?

well I thought for sure BI but defiantly not pan. when you look at the definition of pan, it's too broad. I mean, I won't date a trans. not looking to offend anyone. and this is why I think "bi" perhaps. but then again, who knows. may be clear in the future but I know not anytime soon lol

You'll figure it out! These things can take time, and sometimes that's for the better! Just keep doing what is right for you. :slight_smile:

As someone who has hopefully learned not to feel any threat from people different to myself, I'd like to stand here with you if I may!! Of course, living & partying in Sydney turned out to be a pretty good place for someone straight to overcome any LGTBQ+ thangs they'd arrived with ... :laughing:

After saying yes to every question on the Am I a Lesbian Masterdoc for the fourth time, I've come to realise I'm almost certainly a lesbian. I've always been attracted to women thus thought I was bisexual. The only time I questioned my attraction to men before 2020 were the three times I tripped and fell over the Am I a Lesbian Masterdoc.

Here's a video of Alayna Joy reacting to the Am I a Lesbian Masterdoc. I also linked it above for woman questioning their sexuality:

i'm a proud lesbian, i'm not out irl that much yet but- i'm going to a very lgbtq+ college tomorrow what is fantastic 0:

I'm a proud bisexual girl. It's been a rough road, but I've finally reached the point of openly showing that IRL too <3

I am a proud bisexual woman. I have had a bit of a journey to get to this place in my life. So basically when I was 12-13 I realized I seemed to like girls. I didn't seem to like boys at all and it really confused me..I had no one I could tell to it about and so I never did.

looking back I realized it was because all the boys I knew were bullies so of course I didn't like them. Because of said bullying I got super depressed and basically just had no interest in dating and didn't feel sexually attracted to anyone. So I thought I was asexual.

I was more open about this but no one seemed to support me and kept telling me I wasn't and no one was. (while true for me, it is such bullshit)

In my very early twenties I finally went to counselling after two attempts on my life and even thought I fought it I was out in an antidepressant. Well within five weeks I felt like a completely different person. I had been depressed so long and counseling and the meds helped so much. I started making friends and got invited out with them.

Realized very quickly I was still checking out women, but also men. I was kinda blown away. Started talking about it a little. Told my big sister who also came out as bisexual but I'm the only family member who knows. She had a long time partner who she just had a baby with.

I told my parents and they had weird reactions. My mom who was always the "ally" was suddenly very non allyish. She didn't think I really knew I was bisexual and was convinced I was just gay or experimenting. My dad who is literally homophobic (actually scared of gay people) was supportive of me but didn't understand. It was really weird.

Soon after this I met the person I was going to marry but we remained friends only for many more years. We mostly saw each other at conventions as he lived in another province.I dated more people. Mostly women as I felt a little more comfortable with women over men at this point for personal reasons not important to this story.

I moved provinces and was in the same city as my friend. Six months after moving we started dating. I wasn't like hugely open with being bisexual. And still only casually dated people. It turned seriously very quickly. And when I told him he didn't care. He was just happy I was open with who I was. I didn't go to any community events or anything for pride bur he took me to my first pride parade.

He took me every year until a year after we got married and I decided I wanted to be open with who I was. so told him as much. He pulled some strings and I got to march with him by my side in the parade. (He's hetrosexual).

We even held a sign that said "He didn't cure me. He loves and accepts me." His said "Plus we check out chicks together".

I've been very openly bi since then and very proud of myself. It's been a weird journey.

Hello everyone I’m Demisexaul, I wouldn’t say I’m open, mostly people just assume I’m a Lesbian because I have a wife and I just don’t correct them. Not a lot of people know about the ace spectrum so I just don’t ever mention it outside of LGBTQ+ groups.

As for gender... so far it’s gone like this:
*cosplays male: I just have more favorite male characters is all.
*wife gets binder to small for her: I don’t want it to go to waste I’ll just ware it.
*cuts hair: It’s just easier to manage short curly hair.
Trans male friend: Have you ever thought you might be non-binary?

Honestly I have no idea.