Tapastic is too nice
I was thinking a lot whether I should post this or not. This is something that has been bothering me for a very long time. My experience on Tapastic so far is good, despite all the hiccups from the technical side, people have been nice and supportive. I grew quite big during this time, which is nice! I have fun interacting with my readers and the community in general. However I noticed something very troubling recently.
The Tapastic community is too nice.
Now, I’m not telling you to start being assholes, that’s not my point. The issue is, criticism is endangered around here. There was a few topics when people criticized other’s work on demand. Trying their best to help the other artists improve, like explain what is good and what needs to be fixed, and that’s awesome. Sometimes I see someone is requesting the critique and no one wants to do it. Why? Is the art so bad you don’t want to say it? Is the writing so atrocious that you don’t want to hurt the feelings of the person who made it? Or maybe no one felt like reviewing it?
That’s what criticism is all about. When you like something, talk about it! See something is off? Don’t be afraid to point it out! I used to be very fragile when I was criticized. I didn’t want to hear the opinions of others but, years later I found myself thinking “Hey, those people were right, my work isn’t the best and I need to improve”. Even if it’s harsh, even if it will bring you to tears, you need to stand up and say “I can do better”. There are many artists that stagnate for years. Were they just patted on the back all the time? Or simply were rejecting all the advice they got? I can say from experience it’s the criticism that stuck with me through all the years, while the formal compliments felt nice but, ultimately got lost in the clamour.
If you genuinely like someone’s work, great! Praise it to the heavens! Nice comments are always a motivation to keep going but, if you see something needs improving or is simply bad, point it out, don’t make up pretty lies. Think twice before you “comment on the one above”.
As an addendum, don’t mistake criticism for hate. If someone gives you directions and use argumentation you should think about it. It can’t hurt to reflect.
That was just something I wanted to get off my chest.
Don’t take any of this personal, please. These are simply my observations regarding some behaviours on the forum.