I think people taking it out of context and judging you being ungrateful, elitist, and pretentious. I'm not blaming you or them as a whole, but it's so was to take your post out of context.
I and some of the people fully understand it's just some issue rooted in insecurities, especially when you write in a genre and tone not widely liked. I do think they don't have same insecurities (lucky) so they can't get it.