I've mentioned it before, but I'll very bluntly mention it bc it'll sound more absurd and possibly funny. I role play as my characters and force myself to cry sometimes for realism in dialogue. It sounds crazy, but hey, it works for me xD
Uhh, what else do I do. I listen to a variety of music, including metal, lo-fi hiphop, dreampop, indie rock, chillstep, orchestral, and video game music, film and TV scores.. but mostly it's something sad so there's that. I tend to love working in colder temperatures, I'm a big boy living in California so I'm practically warm or burning up like 80% of the year. I tend to go all in on one project at a time until I either give up or just lose interest and find something new to work on. I.. don't get a lot done lol
Except... I also like writing music for the stuff I write, like depressing music for a zombie novel I gave up on or experimental anime OST styled music for a comic series I wanna work on. I'm a musician first and writer second, so music's much easier for me to get done lol Sometimes I go back and listen to these while writing to get in a mood with it.
tl:dr there's lots of metalheads here and death metal turns into asmr if you listen to it long enough
Well, if you don't normally listen to it, I can see how you'd get that opinion.. I mean, there's also a lot of metalheads here.. namely in the What Are You Listening To Right Now? thread. I'm one of those guys! I used to go to sleep listening to music like that tbh but anyways! Yeah, at some point the music's exactly like what you expect it to be, there's no longer a huge shock value and you just have the composition, the emotion, the recording quality, and the lyrics if any.
There was a video I saw a while ago where a Youtuber talked about how much he hated black metal, but his fans stood up for the genre and he made a follow up video about the responses, he found that at some point, they get so numb to the music that it almost becomes something like ASMR or lo-fi music.. which plays into how some people can find it relaxing.