Can't find the original argument but gosh this was so funny, the thread literally reminded me of this situation
And this other thing is more of a personal one, but there is this huge missconception that all dark skintones are warm, for some reason people expect you to have an orange-maroon like skintone for art, saturated and vibrant colors, in art is common to see this as a way for composition and arrangement but at the moment to take references a lot follow this because when they see references from irl pictures they don't realize the manipulation of lighting, reflection, non-natural arrangement (Makeup, editing, etc) which leads to this mistake and basically there is this HUGE argument about "Oh, you're making this character's skin WAY too ashy!" and I also went through this same mistake as well, but fun thing... our irl reference was probably looking at ourselves in the mirror or glancing over at our arms lol.
You learn that is not true that all darker tones are warm, the face alone has more than 30 tones that can go from yellows, to greens, to purples, red, blues and more, make up helps it get an uniform color, accompanied by lightning and professional set-up and real skintone it's hard compared to "the real references" from pictures. During the whole career, I had fellow artists as classmates, and me being the one with dark skin... My skintone is pretty ashy, muted, cinnamon like but with a weird twist to it, I ended up looking like Donal Trump more than 5 times by accident lol.