Don't worry, I understand, and I really appreciate it. I was really sensitive too in the beginning. It's been four years so I've gotten a thicker skin somewhat since I started. I hope you've been able to get better at realizing rejection isn't a reflection of your self? How long have you been writing for now?
I agree. I think it's much worse not to talk about them and then people never get a chance to understand other people's feelings and what they go through or to realize that they aren't alone in what they suffer and that people understand them.
The first story I ever published was about living through a tropical storm my family experienced, and it's hard to express how much it meant to me to realize that the world actually cared about the story of my messy little corner of the world almost everybody has ignored.
I get that. My writing is often a combination, not all dark, just like life isn't always all sad all the time. And I like to write funny/silly things to make people smile because even in the ugly times, I want to spread a message of light and love and make the world a more beautiful place by creating things that will make people happy, whether it's because they are funny or because they are beautiful.
Same. It used to be more poems and essays for healing and my stories were unrelated, but when I was able to start writing my experiences in bits and pieces into my stories, it both made the characters and their emotions real and was sort of therapeutic. if my characters can find love and healing, maybe I can too. And when I feel strong enough to write about the things I've experienced and put them in stories then I know I've come very far from where I used to be. I used to be afraid to even admit to what I've suffered, now I can bravely admit that scenes like "Lurid" in Damsel in the Red Dress are inspired by my own real life. Actually, I don't think a single one of my leads have absolutely none of the hard parts of their life inspired by me at least slightly. The very first chapter of DITRD was inspired by my own experience.
I hope writing is able to help all of us find healing and wholeness 